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In fact, I actually have a habit of dancing with an unusually high of men on any given night out. That was a terrifying but exciting thought. It makes me wonder: am I putting out the wrong energy? With a default assumption that men only want to be friends with me, am I creating a self-fulfilling prophecy? And why is it that my own attractiveness feels so hard to believe, leading me to make that assumption in the first place? Let me tell you more about my current dating situation, but first, a flashback Simulation dating games online free how I ended up here.


What if this could be perfect but the timing is all off?

Spoilers: you’re not.

Or worse, maybe this is karma. Thoughts of karma become a dangerous game.

How many guys have been in love with me, and I just brush them off and call them my best friend? How many people have I shamelessly flirted with and led on? How many times have I used others?

When I begin to think about the definition of using someone or being used I find myself in a gray area, how clear is it really? I mean, is flirting with someone using them?

I hate feeling used by the men that sleep with me, but is flirting the same, or is this just dating? Are we all just testing the waters with no commitment trying to figure out what we want?

Is it acceptable to do what we do? I mean, how can someone take you out on dates frequently, have you stay over all the time, and call you just to talk everyday, yet not want to be with you? That has to be some selfish need to have someone to fill the space Kinky sex date in Eastlake OH Swingers someone who is enough comes along, right?

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Or, what if this is all society. We live in a time where everything moves so fast, everything is so replaceable, and maybe we are all now terrified of commitment. I want to tell you that that after going through this cycle about one hundred times that I found the perfect man who made this all worth it. The thing that I can El paso shipping containers you, the thing that I am certain of, is that you are not alone.

I believe that most groups of friends have one of us that go through this; while all our friends are off getting married, we are struggling to feel loved. I can also tell you that there is a high chance that we can top most dating stories, so we can be a lot of fun at a bachelorette party. So, to all the girls that feel undateable, remember, you are not alone. This instability in relationships does not Friends married m for f us, or our ability to love.

These words are for us all.

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